How To Get A Fat Girl To Like You

So, there I was, at this friend's wedding, right? I'm standing by the buffet table, minding my own business, when this guy walks up to me and says, "You know, you should really try the chicken. It's not as dry as you'd think." I mean, thanks for the tip, buddy, but I'm more of a pasta girl myself. Anyway, he then proceeds to tell me that he's "into big girls" and that he thinks I'm "really pretty for a fat chick." I kid you not, folks, I swear I saw the buffet table cringe.

Now, I'm not here to bash on this guy - well, maybe a little - but his approach got me thinking. How do you go about getting a 'fat girl' to like you, without coming off like a total jerk? Because, newsflash, we're just like any other girl. We want respect, we want honesty, and we sure as heck don't want to be objectified or reduced to our size.

First Things First: Ditch the Labels

Let's get something straight. We're not 'fat girls', we're women. We're not 'plus size', we're just size. We're not 'curvy', we're shaped. You get the gist. Labels are for clothes, not people. So, if you're looking to start a conversation, start with something genuine. Like, "Hey, I love your laugh," or "That's a great book you're reading." You know, normal stuff.

But What If I'm Really Into Curvy Women?

Well, then that's cool. But instead of leading with that, show us that you appreciate us for more than just our curves. Talk to us about our interests, our dreams, our passions. Show us that you're interested in us, not just what we look like.

Respect Our Boundaries

We've all had that guy who thinks it's okay to comment on our bodies, to touch us without permission, or to make inappropriate jokes. Spoiler alert: it's not okay. Respect our personal space, our bodies, and our feelings. If we don't want to talk about our weight, our diet, or our 'flaws', then don't push it. It's really not that hard.

Be Honest, But Kind

Honesty is always the best policy, right? But there's a difference between honesty and cruelty. If you're into us, tell us. But don't lead with a list of our 'imperfections' or what you think we could 'improve' on. That's not honesty, that's just mean. Instead, tell us what you like about us. What makes us special. What makes you want to get to know us better.

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But What If She's Not Interested?

Then that's okay. Not every girl is going to be into you, and that's totally fine. What's not fine is making us feel bad about it, or making us feel like we owe you something because you 'like big girls'. Newsflash: we're not a prize to be won, we're people. Treat us like it.

In Conclusion

Getting a 'fat girl' to like you isn't rocket science. It's about treating us with respect, seeing us as people, and showing us that you're interested in us, not just our bodies. It's about being honest, kind, and genuine. And hey, if you can make us laugh, that's always a bonus.

So, the next time you're at a wedding, or a party, or just walking down the street, and you see a woman who catches your eye, remember this: she's not a 'fat girl', she's a woman. She's not an object, she's a person. And she deserves to be treated as such. Now go out there and show her that you can be the kind of guy who gets it. And who knows, maybe she'll like you back. But even if she doesn't, you'll know that you did it the right way.